Meeting guide · command 13
Be Perfect by Loving Your Enemeies
Love enemies through prayer, blessing, and active good so that your life reflects the Father’s generous character.
Read
Read the complete passage aloud.
Primary passage
Matthew 5:43–48
World English Bible
Luke
Luke 6:27–36
World English Bible
Jesus contrasts ordinary reciprocal love with the Father’s kindness toward both the just and unjust, calling His disciples to a complete love that reaches beyond their own circle.
Discuss
Listen carefully to what Jesus says.
- What does Jesus command?
- What does this passage reveal about Him?
- Where do we resist this command?
- What is difficult or unclear?
- What does enemy-love require, and what does it not require, when harm, injustice, or unsafe behavior is present?
Practice
Choose one specific act of obedience.
Name one person you experience as an enemy. Pray for that person by name and choose one safe, concrete act of blessing that does not deny wrongdoing or remove needed boundaries.
Return
Come back and discuss what happened.
How did praying or doing good affect your heart, and what boundary or pursuit of justice still needs to remain in place?
Close together
Pray. Then prepare to teach.
Pray
Father, give us the mercy you show so freely. Guard us from hatred, teach us to pray for those who oppose us, and give us wisdom to love without cooperating with evil.
Teach
Connect Jesus’ call to the Father’s indiscriminate kindness. Explain that enemy-love rejects hatred and revenge while remaining truthful about harm and justice.
