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Yes or No

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Matthew 5:33–37

33 “Again you have heard that it was said to the ancient ones, ‘You shall not make false vows, but shall perform to the Lord your vows,’ 34 but I tell you, don’t swear at all: neither by heaven, for it is the throne of God; 35 nor by the earth, for it is the footstool of his feet; nor by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the great King. 36 Neither shall you swear by your head, for you can’t make one hair white or black. 37 But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No’ be ‘No.’ Whatever is more than these is of the evil one.

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The command

Hear what Jesus commands.

Speak with such simple truthfulness that your yes and no can be trusted without dramatic oaths.

In context

Hear the whole passage.

Jesus addresses a culture of carefully worded vows and redirects His disciples from managing promises to practicing consistent honesty before God.

What this reveals

What this reveals about God.

Jesus forms people whose ordinary speech is truthful, dependable, and free from manipulation.

Practice this command

Take one concrete step.

Identify one conversation where you are tempted to exaggerate, conceal, or make promises you may not keep. Speak plainly, correct anything misleading, and make only the commitment you can faithfully honor.

Discuss

Talk about it.

Why might people use oaths, exaggeration, or extra assurances, and what would make simple truthful speech credible?

Pray

Pray this.

Jesus, make our words honest and dependable. Free us from exaggeration, evasion, and promises made to control how others see us.

Teach

Teach it simply.

Teach that Jesus is addressing the integrity beneath our promises: disciples should not need elaborate guarantees to make truthful speech believable.

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